Many women,
especially young girls, often feel unsafe in their dating relationships.
Sometimes our worst fears are justifiable, but it can also be easy to doubt our
partner's feelings because of our insecurities or previous bad relationship.
Fortunately, many signs can help you understand if your partner really loves
you or if he's using you for his own sake.
ViralGog understands how complicated relationships can be, so we want to give you the best insight into how to determine your partner's true intentions.
1. He loves you:
he looks at you all the time
The
songwriters of many romantic songs have understood well: the man who is really
in love with you will not be able to take his eyes off you. Many men have that
unique look in their eyes when their darling is in formal wear, ready for a
romantic date. But if you notice that he looks at you with wonder and
excitement when you do simple things, like preparing dinner or putting on your
coat, he's probably in love.
2. He uses you:
he does not make you feel that you are special
It's like
you're no different from the other girls he's been with or his friends. He may
always compare you to other people or show you no affection at all. And if you
feel that you are one of many, he probably does not care enough about you to
value you.
3. He loves you:
he opens to you and expects you to do the same
We all feel
vulnerable in our relationships, but it's hard to build a solid one without
sharing our thoughts and feelings. If he is ready to overcome the fear of
rejection and be open to you about his worries and problems, he has faith in
you and can see a future with you. And it works both ways: he is interested in
knowing your true nature, not just the pretty veil you could wear.
4. He uses you:
he manipulates you emotionally
He knows your
strengths and weaknesses and tries to manipulate you to do what he wants. This
type of relationship is unacceptable, no matter what. If you notice that you
always feel guilty or that your partner's emotions dominate yours, it's
probably time to take a step back and evaluate what's going on.
5. He loves you:
he is ready to talk about your problems
While a good
deal of emotion can be beneficial in resolving conflict and keeping your
partner happy, screaming will not solve the problem. Once you've both finished
being emotional, your partner should be ready to have a conversation to discuss
things. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship, and a loving
partner should be able to put his ego aside and admit he could have been wrong.
6. He uses you:
he provokes you so that you make a scene in public or remain silent for several
days
We understand
that things can sometimes become too emotional, but a man who loves you would
never humiliate you publicly by making a scene or make you suffer by staying
silent and ignoring you for days. A man who really loves you will never hurt
you, so if that's not the attitude you want, then run away from that
relationship.
Have you ever felt that your partner had manipulated you? What were the signs? Share your story in the comments down below.